All You Need to Know About Relationships, Balboa, Swing Party, Tango, Hustle!, Private Lessons

Published: Thu, 02/24/11

Gainesville Ocala Swing and Social Dance Newsletter

Hello and Gainesville Ocala Social Dancers,

This newsletter is out early to make sure you know about Christian's Balboa class, tonight, Thursday. This is only on the fourth Thursday of the month. Balboa is a companion to Swing dancing. Come out for a fun and interesting evening. If you signed up for Hustle! for this month, you can come to Balboa for free.

Saturday night are two main events, Richard's Mostly Swing Party at the Boltin Center and the fourth Saturday of the month is Tango Pavadita main monthly milonga at 308 West. As I proved last month, and intend to do again, if you start early, you can do both and will be well rewarded.

If you missed last weekend's lovely Vintage Waltz Brunch (and my Nordic Waltz mixer), you can redeem yourself this weekend. Sleep in and return to 308 West for a delicious Sunday morning Tango Brunch.

Come out Sunday nights at 7 for Hustle! This dance is too much fun.
 
Also this Sunday in Ocala is a Ballroom Dance workshop with Erika Lynn. www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=187701127936096

East Coast Swing revives at Richard's Tuesday class in March.

Next Wednesday is Josh's West Coast Swing party at the Eagles Club. Have a great time and get warmed up for ...

Next Saturday night March 5 for your First Saturday Night of the Month Swinging Soul Dance Party at 308 West. This will start with a lesson on Mastering the Side Pass, which forms the basis for most moves in Swing dancing. Transform your dancing with some simple techniques to make your side pass flow effortlessly. Bring someone new and get in for free.
www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=178549702187755

Gainesville's Tango Dancers make us proud.
www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=642547035445
www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=10150111482589031

You can learn to Tango too. Take the 10 week Tango Academy for Beginners series starting March 19 on Saturday afternoons at 308 West. Sign up with Elke. elkeweibelzah@gmail.com

Daniela Acuri demonstrates the back step in Argentine Tango.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=TnrdL_Wev6g

Sign up for Ballroom Dancing at GHFC with Caroline Picart, March 18 to April 15 on Friday nights at 7:30.
www.ghfc.com

Take in Joan Frosch's theatre and dance program "2280 Pints" at the UF Nadine McGuire Pavillion thru February 27.

Two articles this week on Relationships and Salsa.

Happy Dancing,
Andy

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Schedule: confirm all programs before going

1. Thursday 2/24 - Balboa with Christian

2. Thursday 2/24 - West Coast Swing with Judi

3. Thursday 2/24 - Tango in Ocala

4. Friday 2/25 - UF Swing Club

5. Friday 2/25 - UF Tango Club

6. Saturday 2/26 - Tango Pavadita Milonga

7. Sunday 2/27 - Tango Pavadita Brunch

8. Sunday 2/27 - Hustle!

9. Tuesday 3/01 - East Coast Swing

10. Tuesday 3/01 - Death Letter Blues

11. Wednesday 3/02 - UF Swing Club

12. Wednesday 3/02 - West Coast Swing Dance with Josh

13. Saturday 3/05 - Swinging Soul Dance Party First Saturday Night of the Month

14. Wednesday 3/09 - West Coast Swing with Essie

Article: Salsa Means Spicy

Article: All You Ever Need to Know About Relationships Can be Learned in a Dance Class

Other:

Argentine Tango with David and Thuy on Tuesdays in a downtown private home. david.chayes@gmail.com

Argentine Tango with Andrea Pham on Wednesdays in a NW private home. pham.andrea@gmail.com

Ballroom Semi-Private Classes with Caroline Picart in private homes. cjpicart@gmail.com

Latin dancing on Tuesdays 8-10 class and 10-11 free dance social, Thursdays 8-10 class and Sundays 5-7, Bachata, Cha Cha, Salsa at the Unified Training Center, $6/hour. leydi@salsacalientestudios.com

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Quotes:

- Eccelesiastes assures us, there is a time to dance. ~ Kevin Bacon as Ren McCormack in Footloose
 
- No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other's worth. ~ Robert Southey

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1. Thursday 2/24 - Balboa with Christian

Gainesville Dance and Music Association, 308 W University Avenue

8:00 - 9:00 : Balboa lesson

9:00 - 11:00 : Balboa dancing

$10, $5 students

Christian, 352-514-7411, dcamp@alumni.ufl.edu

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2. Thursday 2/24 - West Coast Swing with Judi

Imperial Dance Studio, SW 34 Street

7:00 - 8:00 : Class

$35 Month

Judi Markell, jlmarkell10@comcast.net

352-375-7763, imperialdancestudio@hotmail.com, www.imperialdancestudio.net

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3. Thursday 2/24 - Foundations of Argentine Tango in Ocala

Las Palmas Restaurant, Ocala, FL

7:00 - 9:30 pm : Argentine Tango class

$10, $5 students for lesson

Free for practice, social dancing afterwards

David Chayes, david.chayes@gmail.com, 352-328-7916

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4. Friday 2/25 - UF Swing Club

Unified Training Center, 809 W University Ave

8:00 - 11:00

Free

www.FloridaSwingDance.com

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5. Friday 2/25 - UF Tango Club

UF Housing Tanglewood Common Room, 2907 SW 13 Street

8:00 - 9:15 Tango class

9:15 - 11:00 Tango practica and social

Class and practica is free for UF Tanglewood residents and students. $5 donation minimum is asked from others.

UF Argentine Tango Club, http://grove.ufl.edu/~tango/

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6. Saturday 2/26 - Tango Pavadita Milonga

Gainesville Dance Association, 308 W University Avenue

7:30 - 8:30 : Tango technique, all levels

8:30 - 12:00 : Milonga

$10, $5 Students

Argentine Tango milonga. Elegant dancing, light refreshments

Elke, elkeweibelzah@gmail.com

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7. Sunday 2/27 - Tango Pavadita Milonga

Gainesville Dance Association, 308 W University Avenue

11:00 - 2:00 : Tango brunch, lesson, practice, dancing

$10, $5 Students

Argentine Tango milonga. Elegant dancing, light refreshments

Elke, elkeweibelzah@gmail.com

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8. Sunday 2/27 - Hustle!

Gainesville Dance and Music Association, 308 W University Avenue

7:00 - 8:00 : Beginners Hustle!

8:00 - 9:00 : Intermediate Hustle!

9:00 - 9:30 : Advanced Hustle!

$10, $5 students

Includes Israeli dancing on Monday nights

Andrew, 352-327-2378, publish@gainesvilledance.com

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9. Tuesday 3/01 - East Coast Swing

Thelma Bolton Center, 516 NE 2 Ave

6:45 - 9:15 : Lesson and dancing

With Professional Dance Instructor Barbie

Richard, 352-213-8769, mostlyswinggainesville@yahoo.com

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10. Tuesday 3/01 - Death Letter Blues

The Midnight, 223 S Main Street

9:00 - 10:00 Blues dancing lesson

10:00 - 12:00 Blues dancing

Free

GainesvilleBlues@gmail.com

www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=156370187717441

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11. Wednesday 3/02 - UF Swing Club

Ustler Hall, UF Campus

8:00 - 11:00

Free

www.FloridaSwingDance.com

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12. Wednesday 3/02 - West Coast Swing Dance with Josh

Eagles Club, 4562 NW 13th Street

7:00 - West Coast Swing dancing

$3 members, $5 non-members

Essie Jennings, essie.jennings@gmail.com

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13. Saturday 3/05 - Swinging Soul Dance Party

GDMA, 308 West University Ave

8:00 - 9:00 : Dance lesson on Mastering the Side Pass

9:00 - 11:00+ : Social Dancing Mostly Slower Swing

$10, $5 Students

Starts exactly on time.

For all levels of experience. Newcomers welcome.

No partner needed.

Andrew, publish@gainesvilledance.com, 352-327-3672

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14. Wednesday 3/09 - West Coast Swing with Essie

Eagles Club, 4562 NW 13th Street

7:00 - West Coast Swing class and dancing

$3 members, $5 non-members

Essie Jennings, essie.jennings@gmail.com

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Article: Salsa Means Spicy

When I got to the Salsa Workshops, Pedro was sitting on a bench holding his head. He said, "they are too much for me."

There were dancers from Tallahassee, Jacksonville, Tampa, Georgia and a team of about 30 dressed in black and red that came up from Miami.

In front of me was a dazzling, 105 pound young woman, in black high heels, red nail polish, waves of black hair, tight pants, bulging blouse, playful Latin eyes outlined in dark mascara, a huge smile, bubbling personality, whirling through a mesmerizing complex of turns, with a combination of delicate gestures from lovely hands to a display of feminine power from untamed hips.

It was 1:30 in the afternoon.

If you were anywhere else, you were in the wrong place.

www.gainesvilledance.com/Newsletters/Articles/tabid/79/Gainesville-Dance/184/Salsa-Means-Spicy.aspx

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Article: All You Ever Need to Know About Relationships Can be Learned in a Dance Class

On the English Country Dance web page they had a link to All You Ever Need to Know About Relationships Can be Learned in a Dance Class.

www.dancefl.us/common/Relation.shtml

If only.

Good advice for your superficial cases, which many dance relationships are, but some cases are more intriguing.

A more realistic title is "More Than You Will Ever Want to Know About Relationships, You Will Learn In a Dance Class".

Karen told me she had a falling out with her friend David. Now he avoids her, so she avoids him. I find myself unable to resolve a similar situation.

I have two younger sisters and a mother. I hardly paid them any attention except to torment them. My mother said I was a collicky bady. She said I came out screaming and did not stop for a year. When my sister was born, I pushed her bassinet down the stairs. I was literally born with a nature for upsetting women.

Luckily, I come from a long family of fighters. If something bothers us, we fight. When my sister tried to run away from an argument, my dad yelled at her, "Come back here and fight like a man."

My sister was complaining to my mom about her husband and my mother told her to fight with him. She also told her to shtupt him. They have a good relationship, so it seems to work.

I had a girlfriend whose method of conflict resolution was the silent treatment. She broke up with me four times and would never tell me why. I listened to a book on tape "How to Deal with Difficult People." The author talked about 12 types, like the Liar, the Procastinator, the Verbal Abuser, the Chamelon, and he had techniques for dealing with them all, except one. The most difficult type he said was the Clam, which is the person that will not talk with you. He said there is nothing you can do with a Clam. His advice was to give up.

After one of the break ups, Ifhat, a good friend of mine got mad at me, but she said, "We have been friends a long time. I don't want there to be bad feelings between us." I had forgotten how well-adjusted people behave.

One day I got a call from Eti. She said, "Come pick me up." I went over to her brother's house and she was standing outside with her suitcases. She had a fight with her sister-in-law. She said, "I am going back to Israel." I asked her if she told them she was leaving. She said, "I left a note." I told her not to be so hasty and she could stay in my extra bedroom.

We had some big fights. If something bothered her, she could not hold it in for two minutes. You have to love that. She had five brothers who she was close too, but when her baby was born, she gave him to me to hold him at the bris. I would have preferred a seat further from the action.

I told Karen to go talk to David and make up.

I do not know if the author was right about dealing with a Clam. Nothing I have ever tried worked. Maybe writing an article will.

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